As a woman I wanted to be appreciated and loved. I have high expectation with my husband to be more cheesy and loving that turns out to be a disappointment. I forgot he also has a different view of how to took good care of his wife. Which turns me out as a cold one. It’s not my intention to be mean,I just want him to do cheesy things which he interpreted that I’m not giving him credit to be a good husband. It really took time to adjust. I learn to be more understanding towards his actions. I don’t want to change him even if I want too. Theirs a lot of twist and turns along the way but nothing can harm the both of us by talking and voicing out our differences.
As adults we need to grow for our own sanity. Raising kids and familiarizing each other is really a challenge. I was warned for this,I’m just in denial that I’m prepared for everything. I’m always a crying baby. A sensitive cold blooded mammal. My husband think I’m arrogant and I think his ridiculous.See? in marriage,it’s not always candies and rainbows. Theirs also thunderstorms and typhoons. Which will blow you away and hit the very core. But don’t you worry. The next and following days will be different. The day will be over and your going to rest and sleep the heartbreak and tears. I’m so dramatic on this part. But yes! the morning will come out soon and I will be happy again,I will be happy again.